Tips for Enhancing Relationship
- Discover and do things that help your spouse feel loved.
- Stay current. Don’t let the list of unresolved problems grow.
- Tell your spouse your feelings, wants and needs.
- Ask questions expecting answers.
- Validate each other’s issues and feelings. It really doesn’t mean you
have to agree.
- Treat each other as adults.
- Keep dating.
- Attend to your own health physically, emotionally, intellectually and
spiritually.
- Ask for and grant true forgiveness.
- Become a cheerleader for your spouse.
- Complement your spouse in front of others.
- Be ready to give if you expect to receive. But only give what you can
afford.
- Talk to a friend who can hold you accountable to invest in your marriage.
- Refuse to indulge poisonous, critical thoughts about your spouse or marriage.
- Join or start a couple’s group.
- Read a book on marriage with your spouse.
- Pursue a common interest/hobby with your spouse.
- Don’t tell your spouse what on this list they need to do. They are
for you.
